Your pre-wedding photoshoot (also called an engagement shoot) is more than just a warm-up before the big day — it’s a chance to tell your story, capture your chemistry, and create images that feel authentically you.
As photographers, one of the most common questions we get is: “What should we wear?” The right outfits can elevate your photos from nice to timeless, while the wrong choices can be distracting or date the images quickly.
Here’s our photographer-approved guide to help you look confident, coordinated, and camera-ready.















1. Coordinate, Don’t Match
Instead of wearing identical colors or outfits, aim for coordination. Choose a complementary color palette (think soft neutrals, earth tones, pastels, or muted jewel shades) and build outfits around it.
✔ Example: One partner in beige and white, the other in sage green or soft blue
✘ Avoid: Both wearing the exact same color head-to-toe
This creates visual harmony while letting each person’s style shine through.
2. Choose Timeless Colors Over Trends
Neutral and earthy tones photograph beautifully and won’t feel dated years from now. Our favorites include:
- Ivory, beige, camel, and cream
- Soft browns and tans
- Muted blues, greys, and greens
- Pastels like blush, lavender, or powder blue
Try to avoid neon shades, overly bright colors, or bold logos — they tend to steal attention from your faces and emotions.

3. Dress for the Location & Season
Your outfits should make sense in the environment you’ve chosen.
- Beach shoots: Flowy dresses, linen shirts, barefoot or sandals
- Urban shoots: Structured outfits, jackets, heels, or boots
- Nature or countryside: Soft fabrics, layers, earthy tones
Season matters too. Light layers work well in cooler months, while breathable fabrics keep you comfortable during summer shoots.

4. Comfort = Confidence
If you’re tugging at your outfit or feeling restricted, it will show in the photos. Choose clothes that:
- Fit well (not too tight or too loose)
- Allow movement (walking, sitting, cuddling)
- Feel like you
When you’re comfortable, your expressions are relaxed — and that’s what we want to capture.

5. Add Texture & Layers
Layers and textures add depth and interest to photos, especially in natural light.
Think:
- Knits, lace, chiffon, linen
- Blazers, shawls, scarves, denim or leather jackets
Layers also give you the option to change up your look without a full outfit change.

6. Keep Patterns & Prints Minimal
Small patterns can sometimes create visual distortion on camera. If you love prints, keep them subtle and balanced with solid pieces.
Avoid:
- Busy prints
- Thin stripes or checks
- Large logos or graphics
Simple always photographs better.

7. Shoes Matter (Yes, Really)
Your shoes will often be visible, even in close-up shots.
Choose footwear that:
- Matches your outfit style
- Is clean and comfortable
- Makes sense for the location
Pro tip: Bring a backup pair if you’re unsure — especially for outdoor shoots.
8. Grooming & Styling Tips
- Keep hair and makeup natural and polished
- Avoid last-minute drastic haircuts or colors
- Neat grooming for facial hair
- Light makeup photographs better than heavy contouring
If you’re planning professional hair or makeup for your wedding, the pre-wedding shoot is a great trial run.
9. Bring One Extra Outfit (Optional)
If time allows, a second outfit can add variety:
- One casual look
- One slightly dressier look
Just make sure both outfits still align with the same color palette and overall vibe.
Final Thought
The best pre-wedding photos happen when you feel relaxed, confident, and connected. Your outfits should support that — not distract from it.
If you’re ever unsure, don’t worry — we’re always happy to help you plan outfits that suit your style, location, and story.
✨ After all, the most important thing you can wear is your love. ✨
Need personalized styling advice for your pre-wedding shoot? Get in touch — we’d love to help you plan every detail.
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